For decades, family, friends, and coworkers pointed to birthdays as special occasions. Believing the emphasis should reflect on experiences, I dismissed the value of a party, avoiding a few occasions. A celebration at fifty was one such gala I skipped when offered by a friend. Often envious hearing about others marking their graduation or university degree, that opportunity never landed. Recognizing my daughter's degree is a day to remember.
An example where the accumulation of years did hold great personal value was retiring from a career in emergency medical services. Forty-five years in one profession felt like a real accomplishment. Helping people in distress is something all first responders and healthcare workers should get that “feel good” rush from. Looking back at specific incidents, the people I encountered, and the surrounding circumstances have generally been positive. Please don’t let shiftwork, missed family occasions, or working weekends dampen your feel-good moments.
Sharing the ending of a satisfying profession was one of my happiest days ever. With help from family and friends, hosting a party thanking many of those who accompanied me through the decades was one way to express my gratitude. There is a reflective rush each time I read of another responder’s retirement or hear another radio sign-off demonstrating dedication and pride in their accomplishments. You did good!
Often asked to tell a “work” story, when questioned by family, I responded to my daughter’s repeated urging to put pen to paper and document the memories. Thanks to Lauren, exploring the theory of having enough content to author a book came full circle just over two years ago. She pointed me down a path that has been a purifying adventure. Sharing the many stories has taken me the whole gambit. Ranging from daydreams remembering emergency calls to some tears over the sad situations people become embroiled in, what a trip.
There isn’t a responder or healthcare provider who doesn’t shudder when asked, “What’s the worst thing you have ever seen?” The inquiry should not be mistaken for an interrogation. People are genuinely curious. First responders and healthcare providers have a wealth of experience proving they can connect with the public. Listeners and readers don’t necessarily want to be us; they want to hear about real situations. I believe it’s, in part, an acknowledgement of our service. Respect.
This brings me to the milestone that, frankly, comes as a surprise. I thought finishing the project and publishing my story was the whole deal. A never-ending thanks go out again to Lauren for her continuing help with the details then and now. If you know me, I never held myself out to be an author. A friend and respected colleague told me I could refer to myself as one after selling the first book.
RUNNING REDS has passed one thousand copies in circulation.
Thanks for that milestone. There will not be a party!